This is a tool I've found helpful in making us aware of how differently different cultures operate. Look at the different subjects in these lists (and think of others) and decide whether (instinctively, as a gut reaction) you would be happy to talk about them publicly or whether you would rather not talk about them. Which things are you happy to talk about with most people (work colleagues, acquaintances, even strangers in the street)? Those things are outside the box, in public space. Which subjects would you only talk about with your very closest friends, if at all? Those are in the box, private. The surprising thing is that, although most of us would think it's pretty 'obvious' which things are inside and outside the box, another culture would put them precisely the other way around. Although there are lots of variations by personality and sub-culture, broadly speaking, my own culture would put most of the first list in the box and be happy to talk pretty freely ab...
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